<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Life as a Single Father]]></title><description><![CDATA[Navigating Life after Divorce and lessons on how to co-parent with a manipulator]]></description><link>https://www.singledadlife.net/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2026 04:58:38 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.singledadlife.net/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Blog Post 1 - The Day Everything Changed]]></title><description><![CDATA[19 April 2024. There are certain dates that become permanently etched into your memory. Birthdays. Weddings. The day your child is born. And then there are the dates you wish you could forget. For me, it was 19 April 2024. I woke up expecting another ordinary Friday. I went through the same morning routine I'd followed for years, completely unaware that by the end of the day I would no longer be living in my own home. My wife looked at me and said six words that changed everything. "I need...]]></description><link>https://www.singledadlife.net/post/healing-through-stories-a-single-father-s-journey</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a72ade66f3a9867f4d70178</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 03:28:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ddefef_0fb4785741ea44bf8e9d7d4f640229f4~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>PDV</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Blog Post 2 - The One-Hour Dad]]></title><description><![CDATA[People often ask me what the hardest part of divorce was. The lawyers? The court hearings? The financial settlement? Losing the house? None of those. Not even close. The hardest part was becoming a part-time father overnight. One day I was doing all the ordinary things dads do without even thinking about them. Getting my daughter ready for school. Helping brush her teeth before bed. Reading "just one more story" because one story was never enough. Helping with homework. Watching cartoons on a...]]></description><link>https://www.singledadlife.net/post/navigating-life-as-a-single-father-after-divorce</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a72ade3a6b03c80faf28308</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2026 03:28:35 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ddefef_4497a70be47d4d7a8838c6d2769a22c3~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>PDV</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Blog Post 3 - The Answer I Didn't Expect]]></title><description><![CDATA[They say the truth always comes out. Sometimes it takes weeks. Sometimes it takes months. In my case, it took more than two years. And when it finally arrived, it came in a way I never expected. Ever since my marriage ended, there was one question I could never answer. Why? Friends asked me. Family asked me. Even complete strangers eventually asked me. "What happened?" "What did you do?" I never had an answer. Not because I was hiding anything. Because I genuinely didn't know. For two years I...]]></description><link>https://www.singledadlife.net/post/the-answer-i-didn-t-expect</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a74b6ce2dc76a37da3b2bf8</guid><pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2026 16:34:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ddefef_c9cbae142e7b48b0afd490553834b2d8~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_388,h_262,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>PDV</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Blog Post 4 - Finding My Voice Again]]></title><description><![CDATA["The greatest casualty of manipulation isn't your happiness. It's your confidence in your own judgement." If there is one lesson that my divorce has taught me more than any other, it's this. Never surrender your voice simply because someone else speaks louder. Looking back now, I don't think I lost my voice overnight. I gave it away. One compromise at a time. One avoided argument at a time. One "it's not worth the fight" at a time. Like many people in relationships, I convinced myself that...]]></description><link>https://www.singledadlife.net/post/finding-my-voice-again</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a763c86421979b2d9721242</guid><pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2026 20:21:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ddefef_cef138d141e64c4b91123e55e9501d65~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>PDV</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Blog Post 5 - Some Bills dont Disappear With Divorce]]></title><description><![CDATA[Of course, financial independence after divorce doesn't mean every dollar you earn suddenly becomes yours to do with as you please. Far from it. One of the things I fought hardest for during my divorce was equal time with my daughter. I eventually achieved 50/50 custody. Perhaps naively, I assumed that if we were sharing the responsibility of raising our daughter equally, there wouldn't be a significant ongoing child support obligation. I was wrong. Despite having Anna 50% of the time, I was...]]></description><link>https://www.singledadlife.net/post/blog-post-5-some-bills-dont-disappear-with-divorce</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a7a59e9ecb2cb929ff7ca41</guid><pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2026 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ddefef_d39ae55699234ac2acbd498c2a6b2d42~mv2.avif/v1/fit/w_626,h_417,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>PDV</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Blog Post 6 - The Difference Between Compromise and Surrender]]></title><description><![CDATA[For most of my adult life, I thought compromise was one of the foundations of a successful relationship. And I still believe that. Two people cannot build a life together without compromise. You compromise about where you live. What you spend. Where you go on holiday. Whose family you spend Christmas with. What you watch on television. You compromise because you're a team, and sometimes being part of a team means accepting that you can't always get your own way. There's absolutely nothing...]]></description><link>https://www.singledadlife.net/post/blog-post-6-the-difference-between-compromise-and-surrender</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6aa8c015f448a9cd17bd100a</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2026 03:50:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ddefef_48403168d4544ad7a7c6019df483e2f0~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_736,h_414,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>PDV</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Supporting Men's Mental Health: A Father's Perspective]]></title><description><![CDATA[Men's mental health is often overlooked, yet it is a crucial aspect of overall well-being. As a father, I have witnessed firsthand the struggles that many men face when it comes to mental health. The stigma surrounding mental health issues can make it difficult for men to seek help, leading to a cycle of silence and suffering. In this blog post, I will share insights from my own experiences and provide practical advice on how we can support men's mental health, particularly from a father's...]]></description><link>https://www.singledadlife.net/post/supporting-men-s-mental-health-a-father-s-perspective</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a72ade12df0f1eeb2f4cd86</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Jan 2026 03:28:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ddefef_644fcd81074c4f5a8770d8c692c38b8b~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>PDV</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>